Thanks for your replies Nipper 64 and Silent Shooter.
Yes you are both right

and that was what I tried to arrange with the other party but the gentleman has got his brain stuck in a bucket of cement

and is insisting on only using a UPS 6 to 8 Business Day courier service of his choice ?????

regardless of me asking to arrange everything from this end and for me to post or email him a prepaid Hermes or Parcel Force label which would get the delivery done and dusted, and as I can not get passed his obsession and devotion to use a UPS Courier Service I have now floundered and recon that I have abysmally failed

in all attempts to arrange anything with the other party except for a personal pick up

. In fact I have now got a feeling in my water that I am now on his email ignore list

and the whole of the courier challenge has gone south with the penguins for the winter

But one must live in hope
Thanks all Phil